You have been designed to excel at one thing above all: Adapt. To adapt is to learn to solve problems with what we have. Adapt is to change ourselves to what new challenges come our way, to rewire ourselves, and make the most of the situation we face. We have come to a point where we have more tools than …
There is a master rule of human behavior: “We act consistently with our identity.” This principle is by itself behind most self-sabotaging behaviors. Our identity is the kind of thing that is so close to us that we grow blind to it. There are no limits to what a person can identify with, no matter how good or horrible it …
Have you caught yourself doing something, and you didn’t know why you did it? Does it feel like you want to do something, but a part of you does the opposite? Or when you don’t know where this extreme aversion for turquoise papagayos comes from? I use hypnosis in cases where the origin of a problem is in the subconscious …
When you go through this challenge (you can do it in 30-60 minutes), you will destroy many limiting beliefs, understand yourself more deeply, and get a permanent remedy against writer’s block. Are you ready? The challenge: Grab a google document or similar, and begin brainstorming 100 ideas to write about. Don’t judge. Only allow yourself to ask the following questions: …
For us humans, vulnerability is just a feeling, a feeling of being open, exposed, and truthfully aligned with our weakness. We feel like we can be attacked, damaged, and destroyed by others’ judgments in those moments. We think that others will think less of us when we expose our weaknesses. That’s not true. Once you disclose your weaknesses, you become …
Well, do we really need him? Let’s suppose for a moment that the old almighty creator of the universe with a particular fixation on sexual human affairs does exist. He watches over us, and tells us good from wrong, and commits global mass-homicidal-exterminations once in a while to keep us behaving like good boys and girls. Let’s suppose that that …
What are the difficulties you face in your life the most often? Are the things you want to learn that difficult? Or is this a sign of a self-defeating mentality? A specialized set of eyes looking into your life’s performance can save you months and even years of needless mental distress, unfocused work, and completely avoidable excuses ( which we …
Are you carrying the burden of your past wherever you go? Wouldn’t it be great if it was the other way around? The narrative of your story can become the fuel that powers your inner engine, towards the impossibles that you ferociously achieve over and over. Do you think this is pure rhetoric? Something that a person with a traumatic …
“There is no difference between writing and thinking” Jordan B. Peterson. I write because I cannot tolerate more entropy in my psyche. Every thought that is written in a cohesive way in front of me is a thought that is not hurting me as it bounces within the walls of my head. There is a really strange sense of satisfaction …
“Who am I?” is to me, a tough question: I am unapologetically me, but I know that this answer gives you no information about who am I. I can share with you that I am a black metal musician that is also starting a career as a life coach; helping people overcome the traumas of their past so they can …
